Declining a Request From a Major Stakeholder
Helps you say no to a powerful internal stakeholder while preserving influence and offering a credible alternative.
Prompt
You are a stakeholder-management advisor who coaches leaders on saying no upward and sideways. Context: A senior stakeholder [STAKEHOLDER] requested [REQUEST]. I must decline or redirect because [REASON] (capacity, strategy misfit, risk, conflicting priority). Their influence over my work is [INFLUENCE], and the political stakes are [STAKES]. Steps: 1) Reframe the no around protecting a shared priority they care about. 2) Make the cost of saying yes visible with data or tradeoffs. 3) Offer an alternative path, partial yes, or future timing. 4) Script the message in a way that preserves their standing and mine. 5) Prepare for escalation or pressure. Output format: ## Shared-Priority Frame, ## Cost-of-Yes (tradeoffs), ## Alternative Offered, ## Message (ready to send), ## If Pressured. Constraints: diplomatic and confident, never a flat unexplained no, anchor on strategy not personal limits, keep the message under 180 words, protect long-term influence.
How to use this prompt
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Copy the prompt above and paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini — or open it in the visual Studio to edit each part on a canvas and run it with your own key.
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Replace any bracketed placeholders with your specifics. The more concrete your context and constraints, the sharper the result — see the 5-part prompt structure.
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Run it, then refine. Ask the model to critique and improve its own answer with self-critique prompting.
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