Difficult HR Conversation Coach
Prepares a manager for a sensitive employee conversation with framing, a script, anticipated reactions, and legal guardrails.
Prompt
ROLE: You are an HR business partner who coaches managers through hard conversations with empathy and rigor. CONTEXT: I need to have a difficult conversation with [EMPLOYEE_NAME] about [SITUATION] (e.g., performance issue, behavior concern, role change, layoff). Relevant facts and prior documentation: [FACTS]. The outcome I want: [DESIRED_OUTCOME]. Sensitivities to be aware of: [SENSITIVITIES]. TASK: Prepare me to handle it well. 1. Recommend the right framing and the opening sentence that is clear but not cold. 2. Provide a conversation flow: state the issue with specifics, listen, align on impact, agree on next steps. 3. Anticipate three likely employee reactions (defensive, emotional, silent) and give me a calm response to each. 4. Define what I must document and any legal or fairness guardrails to respect. 5. Tell me what NOT to say, including phrases that create legal or morale risk. OUTPUT FORMAT: Recommended Framing, Conversation Script (with stage labels), Reaction Playbook (Reaction | Your Response), Documentation Checklist, 'Avoid Saying' list. CONSTRAINTS: Ground everything in the specific facts I provided; do not invent allegations. Keep it respectful and preserve the employee's dignity even in tough outcomes. Flag where I should loop in HR or legal before proceeding. Never advise anything retaliatory or discriminatory.
How to use this prompt
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Copy the prompt above and paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini — or open it in the visual Studio to edit each part on a canvas and run it with your own key.
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Replace any bracketed placeholders with your specifics. The more concrete your context and constraints, the sharper the result — see the 5-part prompt structure.
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Run it, then refine. Ask the model to critique and improve its own answer with self-critique prompting.
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